Praise the Lord I slept past 3am for the first time since
arriving in China! I actually got 10 hours of sleep last night! Today is a new
day indeed! Our little buddy woke up smiling as always today, and loves to just
look out the window and talk to himself. I’m still not feeling completely well,
but I decided that I might try to run on the treadmill this morning since I was
actually well-rested. Mom was going to Facetime with family back home so I
tried to get that going so I could say hi before I went. We keep having issues
with our VPN, so I could not get it to connect. I was quickly running out of
time to run, so I gave up and went downstairs. It’s really hard to choose your
speed on Chinese treadmills because everything is in km. Who knows how far or
fast I actually ran, but I only had 20 minutes before I had to get ready for
breakfast. When I got back upstairs they had gotten Facetime to work, so I got
to talk to Scott, Catie, Sandy and Lauren for a few minutes! We didn’t get to
talk long because we had to get breakfast before we met our group at 9:00. I
had everyone go ahead and met them down there.
David is definitely still having some issues related to
food. He eats great and doesn’t even mind sharing, but if he drops anything or
eats something he doesn’t like, then watch out. Today we have no idea what the
problem was, but Mom was sitting with the kids while the other three adults got
food, and all of a sudden we hear David crying. Apparently something happened
that he didn’t like, and he went into one of his fits where he hits his head,
kicks off his shoes, and throws stuff. This time he threw the fork that he was
holding in his hand and hit my mom with it! Brian scolded him, took away his
food, and took him out of there immediately. He didn’t calm down until we
eventually brought him back to his food. I can’t wait until I can use Google
Translate all the time and actually talk to him! It’s nearly impossible to
teach him anything or discipline him in any way with no communication.
Breakfast finished with no further incidents, and then we
met our group in the lobby for a picture. Brian actually missed the picture
because he was taking Matthew to the bathroom, but oh well. Our first stop of
the day was the Liwan market where you can buy pearls and jade. My mom and I
had planned to go out with a personal shopper later that day and she could have
taken us to get pearls probably a little cheaper, but since we were already
here and wanted to make the best use of our time we just did our pearl shopping
here. I got a bracelet for David’s future wife (I got the girls and Matthew’s
future wife one last time) and mom got a bracelet too. I was very intrigued by
the black pearls, so Brian bought me a necklace and bracelet made out of them.
Merry Christmas to me! The pearl shop was a different one than last time, and
it was very tiny and very hot! Even with all the kids and dads waiting outside,
I could not wait to get out of there. The kids were mostly entertained by
drinking the free water they gave us, playing with the stools, and riding up
and down the nearby escalator. At 11:00 it was time to head to our next
location, Shamian Island.
Shamian Island is where all of the adoptive families used to
stay because it used to be the location of the U.S. Consulate and the medical
examination facility. Both of those things have since moved to other parts of
Guangzhou, so now families stay at a variety of hotels. The island is still
home to lots of little shops and restaurants, and is frequented by brides
taking their wedding photos. Since we were there on a Sunday the island was
very crowded. Last time we went on a Tuesday and we basically had the place to
ourselves, but our guides had to change our schedule and we ended up there on
Sunday instead. Last time I did most of my shopping for Lily’s gifts on the
island, but since I knew we would be shopping with Ann I decided to wait on
that. We did let the kids each pick out one souvenir though. We went into
Michaels which was the store that gave Lily a little lamb phone last time we
were there. Matthew and David both picked out wooden swords, and Caroline and
Lily chose wooden frogs that make music when you rub a stick across their
ridged backs. Happy with their treasures we headed to Lucy’s for lunch. Lucy’s
is a restaurant on the island that is popular among Americans because it has a
variety of familiar American food. Last time I was so busy shopping that I didn’t
really get to eat there, so I wanted the experience this time. We got the kids
quesadillas, mom and dad got grilled cheese, I got a club sandwich, and my
crazy husband still got a Chinese selection of beef noodles. That worked out
well for David since he didn’t like his quesadilla or fries. We are learning
that he doesn’t like to eat food with his hands, and neither of those are
fork-friendly. We almost had another food catastrophe when he shoveled a
spoonful of spicy salsa into his mouth before we could stop him, but some quick
action by us and a water substitution helped. I think the kid definitely needs
a nap. He’s definitely struggling a bit today.
During lunch the kids spotted the playground that we had
been telling them was nearby, so as soon as the last bite touched their lips
they were practically dragging us out the door. My parents went for a walk around
the island while Brian and I let the kids play. There’s really not a whole lot to
the playground. There’s one section that I’m not even sure how kids are
supposed to play with. It’s basically a triangular section that’s closed off
with bars all around. It looks more like a tiny prison for misbehaving children.
Of course Lily had to go to the bathroom while we were there, and David
followed right after us. I found the one stall with a western toilet and had
them both in there. It was all I could do to get inside the stall and close the
door before the two of them had their pants around their ankles. They were
apparently competing for who could get on the toilet first. Pretty much every
bathroom in China is disgusting. This one was no different. I was pretty much
trying not to touch anything and hold my breath while keeping little hands off
the mop and bucket that were in our stall, preventing David from sticking his
hand in the toilet, and perching the kids on the side of the seat because the
whole front was wet from who knows what. And of course there is never any
toilet paper or soap. Totally sanitary. I cannot wait to have clean bathrooms
again!!!! The kids lasted about 30 minutes on the playground before they were
hot and bored. As we were walking out poor David was completely flattened by a
little boy who was jumping down backward off of the playground. He was not
happy, so I carried him over to the river. He perked up when he saw the water.
We walked down the river for a bit while the boys practiced their sword
fighting skills. Then we took them to 7-11 to get some ice cream. We got 5 ice
cream cones for $5! All was right with the world, until David’s ice cream
started melting. The tops of the cones were wavy, so any time he tilted his
cone a drop fell out. I don’t know if he didn’t like the feeling of the melted
ice cream on his hand or if he couldn’t handle even one drop going to waste,
but he about lost his mind! He started his head hitting screaming fit, which you
can imagine when you have an ice cream cone in one hand how that might go. We
grabbed his ice cream to try to calm him down, then we would give it back. But
each time another drop fell the same thing would happen. We tried giving him a
spoon to help him eat it faster, that didn’t work either. Finally I decided he
just couldn’t handle ice cream in a cone so Brian took him away down the street
and I threw away his cone. I stayed with the other kids while they finished theirs
and then we walked to meet everyone in front of Starbucks. Apparently David
screamed the entire walk there. My parents could hear him coming! We talked to
a sweet Chinese man named James outside of Starbucks for a while who was practicing
his English and saving up money so he could come to the U.S. Then Brian and my
dad headed back to meet the bus and my mom and I went to meet Ann for our
shopping adventure!
We were supposed to meet her at the West Victory Hotel, so
we got some cash out of the ATM and headed there. We waited for a few minutes,
and then as it got closer to 2:30 and I didn’t see her, I started to wonder if
there was more than one Victory Hotel. Mom asked someone at the desk while I
went to check a map on the street and sure enough there was! We were at the
east building. The man gave us directions and we raced down the street to find
the right hotel. Too bad we went one street too far and ended up back tracking!
The hotel was literally directly across the street from where we got money out.
We didn’t have to go anywhere at all. Whoops. We found Ann right outside, and then
walked to the corner to grab a taxi. Since it was Sunday there were hardly any
cabs around. We stood on one corner for a good five minutes without seeing a
single one, and then decided to walk over the bridge off the island to a busier
road. Lots of cabs passed us, but they were all full. Then all of a sudden I
noticed that an older couple who had been walking behind us went up the road a
little bit to hail a cab. That way they would be seen by the cab driver first
and get a cab before us. Not cool! Thankfully they weren’t as skilled at
watching the road as Ann was. She pretty much just kept her arm out. An
occupied cab must have seen her first, and stopped right in front of us to let
his patrons out. The older couple saw what was happening and started running down
the road trying to steal our cab! The woman was talking over Ann to the driver
and basically tried to body block us from getting in! But we pushed around her
and got in the back, and eventually Ann must have convinced the driver to take
us instead of them and got in the cab too. Once we were in she told us that the
driver wanted to take them instead of us because they were going farther and
would have given him a higher fare, and the woman was arguing that they were
there first. Ann told her that no, we were there first. So pretty much both the
cab driver and the couple were ticked off! But we were happy because we were on
our way to our shopping adventure.
Our first stop was a wholesale market to buy silk scarves
and traditional silk Chinese clothing. Ann took us in a building and up an
escalator to a tiny shop in the middle of a bunch of other tiny shops. Think
flea market on steroids. This shop had gorgeous real silk scarves. We both
spent a few minutes picking the ones we liked best. I also had to teach mom how
to wear a scarf, since we Floridians don’t have a whole lot of practice! The
next shop was right across the way and was equally as tiny. It’s so interesting
to me how they fit so much stuff in such a tiny space. There are all kinds of
things on display, but if you push them aside and look in the back, there is an
even bigger selection of everything in all different sizes and colors! I picked
out another traditional dress for Lily to wear when she’s older, and I chose
two for David. One to wear for the next few years in a deep royal blue, and one
to wear when he grows out of those in black and red. I also got a traditional
dress for myself, because why not! We have a Chinese New Year party every year.
I had to try them on over my clothes because there is absolutely no size translation
to US sizes. I think I ended up with an XL or maybe an XXL? I want to know who
is wearing the extra smalls! Everywhere we went Ann would tell us the price of
things in US dollars, and other the price for the same things in other places.
The same silks for David and Lily on Shamian island would range from $10 to $15.
I got them for $2.50. Gotta love a bargain! Mom didn’t have a reason to buy a
traditional dress, but she did get a really pretty silk robe. The last shop we
visited in this building had a bunch of traditional wooden toys. I got each of
the kids a little stocking stuffer from there, and I got David a kaleidoscope with
Pleasant Goat and the Big Bad Wolf on it. According to Ann, all Chinese kids
watch the cartoon Pleasant Goat. I’ll put that away for one of David’s Gotcha
Day gifts.
We left that market and grabbed another cab to find board
games, jade, and cloisonné. This time grabbing a cab was much smoother,
although we did have one refuse to take us first because we weren’t going far
enough. When the second cab pulled up we went ahead and got in, and then Ann
told him where we wanted to go. Much harder to refuse people when they are
already in your car! The ride was about 10 minutes, and we got out in another
area that was equally busy and chaotic as the first. I guess if you grow up in
China you are able to tell where things are (and probably read street signs),
but to me everything is the same and it’s neverending! If you left me alone in
the middle of the road there would be no way I’d find my way back. Ever. And I’m
usually pretty good with directions. This time we didn’t go into a building, we
just walked along the street to find the shops. The first one had awesome board
games. I wanted a mahjong set for our family and a chess set for David. My mom
also saw this really cool compass outside the door that I got for him too. Ann
negotiated the prices for us, then we went on to the next shop while the shop
owner got everything boxed up. We were walking along the street when all of a
sudden she told us to stop at the corner and wait there while she got someone to
let us in. She returned a few minutes later and led us down a tunnel. We had no
idea where we were going, but it looked like it used to be a subway or
something. Underneath the streets were warehouse shops with huge jade carvings
and other large merchandise for sale. Ann told us that they don’t let tourists
come down here, this is where the people with big money shop. Then she stopped
in front of a locked door and the girl she had gotten to help us opened it up.
It looked like a small treasure room in there! There were all kinds things
lining the floor. Metal lanterns and sculptures, boxes of Chinese knives,
wooden carvings, all kinds of stuff. She led us to a shelf in the back and started
opening up boxes of cloisonné ornaments. Ann gestured to all of the things on
the floor and said that on Shamian island the shops sell these things as
antiques. They aren’t antiques, and they buy them here and mark them up! I
bought a box of really exquisite butterfly ornaments for our tree. The entire
box of 6 cost me $10, and on the island I would have paid at least that for
just one ornament. As the day went on I became more and more glad that I didn’t
buy anything on the island! We made it unscathed out of the super sketchy
underground lair, and returned to pick up our board games. Ann told us that
they man was trying to charge us 520RMB, but that we only owed him 380RMB. We
went with what she said, paid him the 380, and got out of there! I decided that
I did want to see if there was any jade I wanted to get for David. I didn’t
really want to get him jewelry, but since jade is such a big deal in China I didn’t
want to leave with nothing. We walked a little farther down the road to a jade
shop where the owner had a dog that I thought was a cat at first. In there I
got David a jade family ball, a jade rock with a dragon carving, and two lions
carved out of jade. At that point my feet and legs and arms were pretty much
done, but we had one more stop to make. Mom was interested in seeing some gold
so Ann took us to a plaza that reminded me a little of Times Square, but even
busier if that’s possible. We went into two jewelry stores there to see what
they had. We learned that in China gold is a big deal. In the states, people
want diamonds. In China, people want gold. And they want pure gold. None of the
14 carat stuff like we have. I must say, the gold jewelry was absolutely
amazing. It was incredibly bright and shiny and had beautiful intricate
designs. Since it was such high quality gold, it was also much more expensive.
Mom decided to pass, and that completed our shopping trip! Ann helped us hail a
cab and we rode back to our hotel, exhausted and exhilarated.
When we got back at 5:30 three kids and Brian were sleeping.
Apparently Lily fell asleep leaning over the side of a chair while eating a
lollipop. None of us really wanted to walk anywhere for dinner, so I gave David
and Lily baths while Brian went down to the hotel lobby to see what food he
could find. The food in the hotel is safe to eat, so I was actually able to
enjoy a salad for the first time since arriving here! They always have salad
available on the breakfast buffet, but I just can’t manage to eat it at 8am.
The kids had pigs in a blanket which they were over the moon excited about.
After dinner we gave the other two kids showers and let them relax and play for
a little while before bed. David didn’t put up a fight at all about going to
bed tonight! Woohoo! Even though I got 10 hours of sleep last night, I was
still pretty tired to I went to bed right after them. Here’s to another night
of sleeping!